How Should Your Sugar Baby Act In Public & In Life?
How Your Sugar Baby Should Act In Public
When it comes to dating a sugar baby, there is always the horror that they will embarrass you or get too drunk or something. You want them to act a certain way and there is no shame in putting that ideal forward. When it comes to bringing someone like this into your life, you have every right to want it your way.
Step One: Make It Known
Always make it known from the get go that you are looking for someone with certain qualities. Someone who is either very professional, knows a lot about politics, can keep up with the country club wives, etc. This way you can weed out majority of the people who don’t live up to those standards. If you don’t lay your feelings on the table right at the beginning, you are setting yourself up for failure. You need to always be open and honest with what your intentions are. You don’t want to embarrass yourself when you take them out in public. They are arm candy, but they should also have some class about themselves and make you look good in the process.
Step Two: Get To Know Them
When you get to know a sugar baby, you find out who they really are. If they can actually wear appropriate clothes, and if they can keep up with the conversation. Decide here if you want to move forward with your sugar baby. Let her know that you need someone who can work a room and not get drunk while also be stimulating. Also check out the way she dresses and acts; is she conservative? Does she let it all hang loose? Does she wear clothing that was meant for kids in high school? Is she pounding back drinks or talking with her mouth open? Make sure they know how you want to look and act and if they are ok with this.
Step Three: Minor Introductions
Before you start taking her around town with all the big wolves in your company, introduce her to a friend or two of your first. Maybe even a work colleague. See how she can keep up with a conversation. If she ends up ordering too much wine and is a messy eater, yet you want to take her to a gala; she might not be the sugar baby for you. If this meeting goes well, you can start taking them to bigger events. A good piece of arm candy who is also well read and stunning in a strapless dress can make all the difference. Not to mention this will make everyone very jealous of you. They will all wish they had someone sexy and smart.
Step Four: Big Events
Make sure you let her know what color tie or suit you are wearing and what type of event this is. You don’t want to be too match-y, but you also don’t want to look like you brought Bjork to a Charity Auction. Feel free to show her off and treat her to a fabulous night. She will make you look good and you will make her feel good. It’s a win-win situation. If she can talk the talk and walk the walk, then you need to spoil the heck out of her. Making you look good is the ultimate goal.
There is nothing wrong with wanting your sugar baby to act a certain way. If you are going to be spending a lot of time with someone, they need to meet a certain level of standard that you set. You are more than welcome to date a bimbo, but if you want to show them off, they need to have some wits about themselves. Making this known is not a crime.
The whole point of having a sugar baby is that you can show off to your co workers, friends and family. You want them to be smart and well read, but also very beautiful. Don’t settle for someone who just sits around all day and watches reality tv. You have every right to go through a few girls before finding the sugar baby that works just right for you and your lifestyle. Wardrobe can be bought; personality is something you have to be born with.