How Should You Compensate Your Wonderful Sugar Baby?
How To Compensate Your Sugar Baby
No one likes to talk about money, especially when it comes to compensating your sugar baby. You don’t want to make them feel like a hooker, but at the same time you don’t want to feel used. It’s a fine line. Not to mention, what is an appropriate means of compensation? Let us help you out. We can make the awkward conversation less awkward for you. We have the facts that you want and that you need, so you can have an informed discussion. Don’t give them the power, when it should be yours.
Talking To Them
When you first meet your sugar baby, talk about how they would like to be compensated. If it’s something you can agree on, perfect. However, remember that they need you, so don’t be afraid to speak up if you are uncomfortable with what they want from you. You have every right to negotiate or just flat out say no. Know your limits before you go into this.
Also, bring up what is expected when it comes to being compensated. Do you want something strictly physical? Do you want a set three dinners a week and two nights spent at your place? Do you want the full girlfriend experience? What about exclusivity? Is she allowed to be with other men while she is with you? These are just a few things to think about.
Types Of Compensation
Trips And Travel
This is a very fun way of compensating your sugar baby because you get to be involved. Treat her to trips to different cities or countries. Take her on some amazing vacations. If there’s one thing we know for sure, it’s that travel sex is always the best sex. Explore new cultures together. Learn and grow together.
Having a travel buddy can be the best thing that has ever happened to you. You can go on adventures with someone who is like you. This can be the best time of your life. Having a travel buddy makes life easier. You never have to worry about which one of your friends will go with you next. You have built in security.
Gifts And Shopping Sprees
This is another easy way to compensate a sugar baby. It’s something as simple as buying her a necklace from Tiffanys or a new Birkin bag. You don’t feel like you’re paying for sex, instead you are just giving her a gift. Taking her shopping will drive her wild. Women love being spoiled, it makes them extremely giving. A giving woman is a pleasing woman.
Figure out what type of girl she is and buy her gifts according to her likes and interests. If she is a book lover, find a first edition of her favorite book. If she loves snowboarding or climbing, buy her the latest gear that is out of her price range. This will show that you are taking an interest in what she likes. This will make her happier. This will make her feel wanted. When a girl is wanted, she will show a hell of a lot more gratitude towards you.
Cold Hard Cash
This one can make you feel like you are paying for sex, but it doesn’t have to. You can make it an allowance kind of thing where every two weeks you just transfer her some money. This is often the one that people find most uncomfortable to handle, which is totally understandable. Giving someone cold hard cash can make things feel a little bit weird, but it can also be a quick fix to the compensation problem.
On a similar note, there is also the option of giving them their own credit card. This can be helpful, but also this can be a tricky deal as well. You need to put a limit on it. Don’t let her overspend and don’t let her get too comfortable being able to spend whatever she wants on whatever she wants. However, this is easy to deal with because if you find she is spending way too much, you can just cancel the card and it’s done.
Now that we have given you some things to think about, do just that. Remember that you don’t have to agree to what they want. You have all the power. If they want $5000 a month, but you just want to give them $2000, you can do that. Just keep things cool and calm and you will be fine.